It is impossible to compel a person to perform any action because in spirituality, an action is defined as the movement of the soul, a desire brought about by an inner spiritual effort. A person is incapable of producing this effort on their own. It is an action that arises within them according to their own nature and the measure of the light that comes to them from above.
We never say that a vessel (Kli), operating according to its Aviut (thickness of desire), Reshimot (spiritual records), and the incoming light, suddenly wants to change or become something different. You cannot decide anything on your own; everything is predetermined for each particular moment. If you wish to change your future, only one opportunity has been given to you: studying within a group, through which you acquire an additional desire that is not merely your own, but an additional acquired from the group, a desire for the upper one.
This is precisely why the shattering into many parts occurred. The soul, as a single vessel filled with light, can become uncorrected and causes the light to depart and the soul to fall. One might ask why are 613 parts needed instead of a single whole? It is written that this was done so that correction would be easier. Through a multitude of souls, incarnations, and small actions, the work of correction will become easier to perform. That is the whole point. Had the soul not been shattered, I would have had no possibility to determine anything at all.
The vessel, together with all its Reshimot and desires, is filled with light and receives it from above; this is already predetermined. Everything comes from above, both the desire and the light. The same would hold true even in the absence of both desire and light. Only subsequently does the light arrive and awaken the vessel (Kli) that begins to move in response.
The division of the collective soul into many parts gives me the opportunity, on my own level—without appealing to above, which I am incapable of doing—to perform the only action that is not predetermined. This is possible precisely because it takes place on my level, where I can receive an addition to my desire from the other parts, or more accurately, an addition to my perception.
Thus, I do not determine who I am, what I am, or what the Creator bestows me. Imagine a Kli: whatever is in it, is what it has; whatever light comes to it, is the light that comes. It cannot change any of this. This determines its state, its thoughts, its desires—everything. The only free choice is to receive an additional perception from a neighboring Kli because the two are connected through their common root. Had they not been connected, such a possibility would have not existed.
Two Kelim (vessels), which were united at their common root, descend into this world and become separated from one another. By striving to connect with another person, by taking something from them, you are, in effect, performing the same act of connection that exists at the root. Instead of the triangle (Kli–root–Kli), you “bond” the two vessels directly, as though merging their desires into one. You receive from your friend an aspiration for spirituality, for the Creator, regardless of whether that aspiration has already been corrected to some extent or not.
In this way, it is as though you unite the two vessels above, and this is the only action you are capable of performing through your own free choice—the only one. Then it is as though you possess two vessels: the one that was originally yours, and the desire you received from your friend. And once you have taken your friend’s desire, you thereby evoke from above—where the multitude of souls is united—at least the light that belongs to both souls. As a result, both your own light and your friend’s light begin to pour upon you; and this is a wonderful addition.
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From the Daily Kabbalah Lesson 7/2/26, Rabash, “What Does It Mean that the Torah Was Given Out of the Darkness in the Work?”


