What does let it not be unimportant in your eyes mean? It means that it is very difficult to reach a state in which a person considers himself lower than others. He thinks that he deserves more than the rest and needs special conditions because only then will he be able to work.
He thinks that the Creator must relate to him differently; otherwise, he will not be able to move from his place. When he looks at other people, he thinks that perhaps they can work without these demands, but he cannot.
Every time he puts forward preliminary conditions, whether he admits it to himself or not. But if he has the demand that only then will he be able to perform some work, this means that he has “pride,” and until he throws this demand out of his heart, he will not be able to advance.
“Pride” is a state that a person usually does not want to admit, and cannot clearly define. It seems to him that everything is fine with him, that he is like everyone else.
But if his work is contingent upon preconditions, without which he cannot give his whole heart, literally his soul, and be devoted to advancing toward the goal, if he sets conditions that the Creator supposedly must first fulfill, then he can wait a long time, and until he annuls all these conditions, he will not be able to advance.
Nevertheless, a person rarely admits this to himself. It is a special inner state when, without realizing it, he sits and waits for something, and only afterward plans to start working. In such a state, he is not at all in connection with the Creator. This state is called “pride,” and then the Creator likewise puts on a mask of pride, and does not want to be in connection with a person who sets conditions.
It is not for nothing that it is written that one must relate to the work “like an ox to the burden and a donkey to the load,” without preconditions, and regardless of the state in which the Creator has placed the person. As soon as he, after having determined his state, agrees to accept the work without thinking, and without making additional calculations, this means that he has removed his pride. Even if he is in the worst possible state, the Creator is in it, is connected with him, and helps him.
One can remove pride, and pull oneself out of the state in which one sets preliminary conditions for advancement only by coming to know the greatness of the Creator.
When a person wishes to feel His greatness and remove his pride—as must happen since there is no other force that would compel him to do this—then he says to the Creator: “Reveal Yourself to me, and I will be able to get rid of my pride, and will not set conditions in the work.” If he truly asks, then the Creator will help, and will reveal Himself to him.
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From Daily Kabbalah Lesson on 7/15/26, Rabash, Article 24, 1989 “What Is “Do Not Slight the Blessing of a Layperson” in the Work?”
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