There is no permission to inform a person how much longer is one given to live in this world; one is not to be informed of this. But Rabbi Shimon was in great joy on the day of his demise, and there was great joy in all the worlds because of the many secrets he had revealed then (Rashbi, Zohar for All, Vol. 3, VaYechi, item 157, “When His Time Comes to Depart from the World”).

The departure of a righteous person is like the purification of a Partzuf. When a person leaves their degree and passes from world to world, and especially when leaving the lowest degree, this world, it is a great joy.

Although it does not appear so to us and we think we are living in a wonderful world, we simply have not yet seen anything else besides it. But one must reveal the spiritual world, as it is said: “You shall see your world in your lifetime,” and then we will understand where we truly are.

If a person completes their mission, they no longer need to return to this world, as was the case with Rabbi Shimon bar Yochai, who attained final correction. This means that from then on, he exists only in the upper dimension and no longer reincarnates into this lower, corporeal form.

But one who has not reached their final corrected state in this incarnation must be born again and live in this world.

It is clear that Rabbi Shimon bar Yochai rejoices not because he has finished his work and can rest, but because he brought the Torah, that is, the light that reforms, to the whole world. And this, of course, fills him with joy.
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From a lecture for the holiday of Lag Ba’Omer, 5/1/10

In our world, a person’s system of values determines the specific nature of their egoism. For example, a penchant for animalistic pleasures:, such as those derived from  the opposite sex or from family life. Or a penchant for human pleasures, such as money or honor.

The proportion to which these inclinations are depicted in a person also depends on upbringing, since it erases natural boundaries. Suddenly, a person begins to desire something that he would never have desired by nature. It is a flaw in our parenting system.

In spiritual education, we do not seem to require anything from a person; we just give them the notion that spirituality is more important than corporeality. Everything else he must cultivate in himself, because the light, by influencing the Kli, nurtures everything in him.

Depending on what one has from birth, their upbringing, and the group they are in, all of this together gives them a general attitude toward life. Then he chooses what is more important to him; he has fuel for the more important but not for the less important.

When a person joins a group that can change his value system or he decides on his own that it makes sense for him to act one way or another, he can independently change these values within himself.
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From the Daily Kabbalah Lesson 4/19/26, Rabash, “Moses Went”

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Question: What kind of conflict exists within a person?

Answer: It is a constant one because a person is created from two desires: egoistic and altruistic. However a true human being is one in whom there is a constant inner struggle between good and evil, one who deliberately pits their good against the evil.

Evil constantly rises up, surging upward, wanting everything for itself, and more. A person, if they wish to engage in self-correction, continually cultivates good within oneself, and remains constantly engaged in this inner struggle.

Question: So the evil within me, egoism, is always there; it is my nature?

Answer: Yes. And you ask the Creator to give you a good nature as well so that you can balance these two natures within you! You might say: “I ask the Creator to erase this evil nature from me.” No! No, that is not wise. Rather, ask that you be given a good nature, and that these two natures exist within you in balance, not one greater than the other, and not that the positive outweighs the negative.

The middle line between them is a wonderful state! I constantly remain in this balance. I stand on two legs above them. Only then can I fully, absolutely fully, feel both the minus and the plus, and all of nature is beneath me.

Question: So a person who contains both within him, his own nature and the nature of the Creator? Is that a harmonious person?

Answer: Of course! Then such a person is called Adam, similar to the Creator, because their inner quality, the one opposite to the Creator, also becomes similar to the Creator.
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From KabTV’s “News with Dr. Michael Laitman,” 3/30/26

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If I do not feel another, truly another, outside of myself, and do not perceive myself within him, then I do not perceive the world at all.

Question: So does that mean I must always see myself through someone else?

Answer: Through someone else, yes.

Question: And the fact that we see ourselves as being so ugly now, why is that?

Answer: Because we close ourselves off, isolate ourselves in, limit ourselves, and we have no desire to see anyone but ourselves. In other words, I see mirrors all around me, mirrors, nothing but mirrors. Reflected in them is nothing but my face, distorted, twisted, full of contortions and grimaces. I see nothing but that. “That” is my world.

Question: So, if I do not let anyone in, and I do not venture out anywhere, does that mean I appear hideous? Does it mean that this, this egoistic state, is my world? It is just me, all alone?

Answer: I see only myself.
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From KabTV’s “News with Dr. Michael Laitman,” 4/7/26

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