Morning Lesson May 24, Transcription
1. Rav’s Introduction: For me means that we, all of us together in the 10 are making efforts and we can act towards the right form so that in our connection, we will discover the Creator because of the result of the connection between us. Therefore the Lord will finish for me it refers not to a single person but to the entire 10 that as much as we exert and we want to reach the goal we need to make a vessel for it because the upper light is an absolute rest. On the other hand, even if we make efforts, our efforts will not be successful unless we will do it together with the Creator, with the hope that the Creator will help us. As it says I am the first and I am the last. I start, he awakens us, he brings the deficiency and according to this deficiency we advance. Nevertheless for this deficiency the Creator has to bring his light and then we will reach a state where the vessel that is the desire and the light will be equalizing to each other in some form. They connect it will be drawn to mutual connection and it is considered the Lord will finish for me. However our work mostly can be successful if we connect our desires, our efforts together. We try to be as one man and one heart and in that one heart Creator who is also one can already bestow the force of unity and later on to be revealed in it in the 10. This actually should be our direction. Let us see what he writes.
Excerpt 3 (03:27)
2.
R.
(05:42)
Yes
this
actually
is
our
general
attitude
towards
our
role
in
spirituality.
Excerpt
3
(05:56)
Again
R. (06:59) If a person doesn't know what is the right state he needs to reach, it didn't exist in him yet, he doesn't have any Reshimot, any records, for such a thing never happened before, and this is how it is each and every time at the end of each and every spiritual state, when he reaches a new connection with the friends and with the Creator. So he reaches a new Creator, a new attainment. What can he reach? What should he reach, what deficiencies? He does not know that, yet. Therefore it can all be only above reason with devotion. It is impossible any other way. If we are rising from state-to-state you cannot depict the right state. (Reader continues) “And you are not free to idle away from it.” That is, even though you cannot depict the right state that you need to yearn for, you have to search for this form and come close to it, as much as possible. By what? By the Arvut in the group, through the mutual connection, by searching, and through the reforming light, through to study, as a result of all of this you want to get closer to the right state. You don't know it and you're not familiar with it and you don't delude yourself that you do know it. However the Creator will finish for me. I will make all the efforts that I understand are the correct ones towards the achievement of that state and I am ready for such a connection with the Creator a new connection.
Reader continues (08:58 - 10:03)
3. R. (10:06) This excerpt is very important, let's see what questions we have.
4. S. (10:17) It says,’ one opening like the tip of a needle.’ What is this opening and where do I find it?
R. A needle which we stitch clothes, so it has a hole in one end, the eye where we pulled the thread through, and then we work in such a way with the thread and the needle at the same time. So what is he trying to say? If you’ll open up to me a deficiency which is so small, like the eye of a needle, like that hole in the needle, right? This is enough for me. If you do that, I will already be able to keep working. I will already enter into this deficiency and I will finish the work. This is called ‘the Lord will finish for me.’ Besides the right deficiency, the smallest one, like a single point, a tiny hole. We do not need to prepare more than that for the work of the Creator.
S. Why does that rid you of the Sitra Achra?
R. This is because the deficiency is just a point. I have no other deficiencies or desires or passions or demands, I just want one thing: I want to be connected with the friends and with the Creator in a single point of connection and I have nothing besides that, no other demands. More than that, will already be a place for the Sitra Achra, the Klipot, the shells, all kinds of calculations, all kinds of ‘what will I get out of this, more or less? But the tip of the needle or the eye of the needle, that's exactly what I want. A point of connection between us in which we will have a connection with the Creator.
5. S. (12:38) What does it mean that the Creator will finish the work because we always have to work in faith above reason?
R. It's because we are working in such a way that we are searching, we want to locate the right deficiency so the Creator will be able to work on it. This is why when we reach that correct deficiency in the group. More or less, then from that moment on, the Creator can work with our deficiency.
S. What is this deficiency?
R. It's a deficiency for connection so that the connection between us and the connection with Him is all that we want. By that we give Him contentment. Yes, in this we really elevated ourselves to His degree and we give Him contentment and then He has a place to begin taking care of us.
S. So there is a specific quality, a certain deficiency that we have to have?
R. Well, that deficiency should be a pinpoint -- that it connects us to a deficiency of a single point. A ‘single point’ means there will be no room for any other calculations, the Sitra Achra, all kinds of things but only the connections between us, that's it. I don't take with me any desires or calculations or other goals but only to be connected between us and with Him together. Imagine this to yourself that this is called ‘the entrance to the spiritual world’.
S. What does it mean that there are no calculations?
R. Besides connection only. More than that or even that, we can hardly depict -- even in that, the Creator helps us. However at least this is what we are able to reach. Beyond that, it will either be a possibility for the Sitra Achra to get something for egoistic desires, if we connect them, to that same point of connection. Or we can already be above the barrier, above the first connection.
6. S. (15:45) Can you explain, what are these’ big carts and carriages’?
R. Whatever the Creator wants to give us. This is how the Kabbalist depicts this to us. This is the language of the Zohar. This what it says in the Zohar, 'carts and carriages can enter. . . ‘ In those times, 2000 years ago, this is how they would describe what it means, a great abundance, great possessions that the Creator wants to give to a person to open it up for him. So if we open up each time just a tiny opening, a deficiency that we only wanted one connection and nothing beyond that, this is enough for the Creator so that through this tiny point of deficiency He can pass such great fulfillment. All of the great fulfillment and this tiny hole becomes great by the light coming from above, expanding it and making in it an entry which is in order to bestow, which is something that we are not capable of doing. However it's enough for us to be in faith above reasons at this single point and all the rest of the Lord will finish for me.
7. S. (17:40) It says the Creator demands work and then He'll do this work innocently. What does it mean?
R. Well, wholeheartedly or innocently means that besides bringing the Creator the deficiency and the deficiency has to come from all of us together then for sure it’s not my egoistic deficiency but rather a deficiency for connection between us. If we bring that to the Creator, He does all the rest. He establishes our deficiencies. He arranges, formats and starts to fulfil them.
8. S. (18:28) In the past we learned what the Sitra Achra takes, afterwards there is the process where it throws it back up, so why engage in it, altogether,?
R. I don't know why we need to engage in what you're saying right now. You should stay with whatever we are talking about because your head should be in whatever we’re discussing.
9. S. (19:08) Is there a difference in the work with the Sitra Achra and with the Klipot? And why do we have to know about this difference?
R. No, for us this is not important right now. All the forces that hinder our correction and mutual bestowal are called the Sitra Achra, the other side, the Klipot, the shells, alien forces, etc., there are many names for the Sitra Achra which is opposite to holiness.
10. S. (19:55) Is it necessary for all of us to participate in building the prayer in the 10 in order to be worthy of an answer, for Him to complete the work for us?
R. I’m not sure if I understood it correctly, or not, what you’re asking, but I’ll tell you one thing only: we have many thoughts, desires, sometimes we begin the lesson and we are all confused. We get up in the morning and we don't know what is our way, which way should we be looking. There has to be one thing that should be clear to us, all of the right scrutinies are only regarding establishing our connection anew with greater strength and greater concessions than before. This is the most correct way, from the side of the vessel, from our side, something we have in our hands somehow. So each and every day and especially at the beginning of the lesson in our preparation, we only want to establish this: to give this greater effort towards connection and in that form, we will discover new states, new relations between us and the Creator. Therefore, if you are in some confused state What should we do? What’s going on? How can I wake up and recover? (A state where) I can’t quite find myself? This is the only way to think towards greater connection. How can we reach inner nearing between us? And then you already entered the spiritual state.
11. S. (22:50) How do I know where or how can I check that I am working in the right direction?
R. According to what I said right now! That if my effort, my direction is through greater connection between us and in the whole of humanity, in general. If this is how I see our perspective, our future, our path then I'm in the right state. From the side of the vessels, you also have the side of the lights. This is how you can see the path and from the side of the vessels. We need to say it from the side of the vessel. What is the state I am in right now, and what is the state that I should have in a moment, what is the next step? The next step will be correct if we will be more corrected than now. This is how the steps are that we need to carry out. Then, for sure, you will not be mistaken. This is simply a rule.
12. S. (24:07) It says ‘I'm first then I am last.’ So what am I supposed to do? He is the one that gives us this deficiency, so is my role to feel that deficiency?
R. My role is to feel the Creator's difference deficiency and to make this deficiency as my deficiency. This is called, ‘make your will as His will’. Then He will make His will is your will. This is why we need to let go of our desire, the present one. It can be beastly, it can be even a little bit spiritual but let go of it and depict to ourselves ‘what does it mean the Creator’s will,’ to rise to a higher degree? Certainly, it's through greater correction. And there, through that extra connection we also discover all kinds of other states, additional components, additional carriers of that spiritual state.
13. S. (25:40) Why does the Creator want us, so much, to reach despair? What is it about despair?
R. Despair is necessary in each and every moment. You are taking steps, you’re walking. How do you walk? Wherever you are right now, you wanted to be in that state a minute ago. In the next moment, if you don't despair -- that is, if you don't leave this state, you cannot move on to the next state. That's why each and every time we need to be in light and darkness, light and darkness, light and darkness. This is how they created being is. That he has a deficiency and he needs to adapt his deficiency to the Creator, this is how he needs to feel. Days and nights, nights and days, however, they complement each other. In the end, we get fulfillment according to the intensity of the darkness, as well. Therefore the more we will get closer, more and more to the goal, the darkness will be greater and greater. The deficiencies will be revealed as greater and greater according to how much we will be able to overcome them. We are never given too much so that we may fail. However it is according to how much we connect and are able to learn more, get closer to each other. According to that, we are given deficiencies, problems as to the students of Rabbi Shimon. They discovered such desires that they wanted to kill one another. That's how it is according to the degree. The minus and the plus must be in equivalence.
14. S. (27:55) How do we make this deficiency a common demand in the 10?
R. Talk about it, each shall help his friend. You need to show one another how much you are yearning for your deficiencies to bring them into a single common deficiency so it's not each one out of himself but each one out of himself to the group and everyone together to the Creator. This is possible only by discussing it, thinking about it. We don't attribute power to our thoughts, however, if we will think together we will see how it will bring us closer and advance us.
15. S. (29:09) How do we overcome the fear that we didn't do enough, where I did too much?
R. That I did more than necessary. We think that this is impossible, but that too, that there is a limit there that needs to be. There's a reason why it says “sit and doing nothing is better.” There needs to be a limitation also on all kinds of actions that are in order to bestow. You have to check are they truly in order to bestow. The intentions that will be attached to the actions. Also the actions must be connected with the intentions. How do we balance between the intention and the act, the act and the intention? If a person is living in the intention, in his intention to bestow and to connect and to rise above himself, that he exists inside the friends, inside the group, in dissemination, He wants the world to reach correction because, all in all, the Creator is expecting that all of the created beings, everyone, will get to know Him. Then, in such a way, a person is saved from the Klipot, the shells. He rises and elevates others. That's it. All in all, I don't know right now, I don't quite have the words. Try to depict ourselves as a single body that wants to bestow contentment to the Creator -- that wants to make the Creator happy. And then accordingly, He will open up to us in His will to bestow. This is called ‘one receives one’. From our side and from His side and according to the degree of the equivalence between us, on His side it's infinite and from our side, it's the eye of the needle. Already, we have this connection in a single point and from it, just like in a drop of semen, the soul begins to develop.
16. S. (32:06) Once we feel some kind of connection between us, how can we not be satisfied by that but to immediately look for the next?
R. We need to also feel the present situation to some extent, however we should not become immersed in it. This is really an art, that I am in some state and I'm not happy with it. So from that state I can start to develop onwards towards connection, towards adhesion, towards corrections or I maybe “as a fool sitting idly by eating his own flesh” or I can even get deeper in it as we say and condemn my maker. So from each and every state where I feel my lack I can develop to stay in it and until the Creator will do something I'm not going to do anything, what about the other can just be despaired right? This is the worst possible state. You may ask, what do you mean it's the worst? It's the worst if one will go in the direction of the Klipot (shells) the ego, know the direction of the ego, it might help him, it might quickly bring him the recognition of evil. This is why that state where a person is doing nothing even though it says about this "sit and do nothing" it is better, we need to scrutinize all of these states Actually following all of these scrutinizes the bottom line is simple, You depend on the environment and if you prepare yourself, if you have invested in the environment, if you are connected with the friends, you have meetings between you, virtual meetings or even physical meetings if possible. This is very beneficial and then it helps. The most important is the point of salvation, the way to exit each and every situation is when a person regains his connection with the environment. We have nothing else because through the environment, through the 10, we get the reforming light. This is how we scrutinize in the kind of connection between us when I now look at the friends I see faces and then I begin to see manners of connection between us and then I begin to feel some inner forms in the connection between us and then I am out of these forms of connection between us I begin to identify to recognize that actually it is giving me the feeling of the Creator. This is what is considered that the Creator stands behind each and every friend, we need to try to search emotionally by honing our emotions so that I will see in the connection between us never the last that place or the Creator is revealed and this is where we can act within, with him. This is how we need to, especially now, in the last generation we need to depict the situation because the whole world is coming to that. In this, the timing is undergoing very hard labor pains, through mutual hatred but this only testifies to how much we need more and more are coming closer to that solution that "the Lord will finish it for me", as we say.
17. S. (37:05) To adhere to the Creator that is always through deficiency for correction?
R. Otherwise you don't feel that you are adhering. You need to have a deficiency for connection and this already depends on us, to the extent that we depict it to ourselves and we talked about it and we study it, this actually is the entire correct result of our work that we will have a deficiency for connection and in it also we realize that the Creator will finish it for me. That we are not truly capable of reaching connection however the disposition for it has to be there on our side and always there comes to stamp from the Creator that he is closing us together closing us this connection and he exists in some form in this connection because what he closes but he completes is our vessel. He does that according to our efforts. This is what we called that he will finish it for me and then He is revealed in that vessel that He made.
S. Sometimes you say that I'm close to the Creator. I'm adhered to Him, that I feel good and I don't need anything else, what do you mean when you say that?
R. I don't know, it is according to what I said, if I'm close to the Creator, then indeed I have achieved some degree of connection between us, and some degree of bestowal from the connection between us contentment to the Creator and it could be that for the time being we have reached it. Now we need to continue on work and if we did everything correctly then in the very next moment after that we immediately feel additional deficiencies that become revealed but they already belong to the next degree. Just like the day in the night replace each other.
18. S. (39:31) What exactly are the forms of connection?
R. Forms of connection, just like you have between each and every one you have all kinds of forms of connection between all human beings but for us, these forms of connection we studied them already, the interconnection of the Sefirot, the couplings of the Sefirot.
19. S. (40:02) The fact that we feel like children walk with the help of their parents is an example of how without His help and of His appearance will be an example of how we cannot accomplish this without the help of the Creator?
R. Certainly, we cannot do anything without the help of the Creator. This is to begin with we need to understand it, talk about it ,and even to attain this throughout our path in each and every place and in each and every state that I am in, I don't understand that state, I don't know how to advance and the Creator places my hand on the good faith. Just like children when we teach them how to walk will even take his foot and we put it down and then the other foot and this is how we teach the child this is how you have to move your feet. This is how the Creator does it with us. We are not aware of it right now, and just like a baby that is not aware of it. But this is precisely what is being done with us. However, by the fact that you do it with the baby you have to take additional steps that's an additional step. It's the same with us, it is just like in the corporeal steps and the spiritual steps but just that spiritual ones are in the desire while the corporeal ones are in the matter. This is how it is done.
20. S. (41:56) How can we envision and understand the Creator's desire in our 10?
R. To the extent that you discover that you want to connect but cannot, there is the Creator, when He is expecting you to ask of him. This is the Creator's will. Is this clear? Think about it and you will see that this is the most correct way.
21. S. (42:47) You said that we have to sharpen our general aspiration for connection, that there should be no foreign calculation here so what is that direction, what does it mean that we have no other calculations that we want just that?
R. You're an architect correct? You know the rules for building right? Through which laws and rules you have in connecting and putting together rocks and irons and how do we build bridges, windows, you can make calculations. However when you reach some new project then you need to recalculate, you need to do something new, Let's say that you have the possibility to build something according to the way you think and the way you imagine it to yourself. So you take those principles that you have learned and that you have gained in your profession, and now you want to develop this new form according to them, you want to do it by yourself. This is the highest work, that you don't want to simply get this thing from somebody and just execute them but rather that you yourself want to, I will do it this way, I will do it that way and you're giving me the possibility to do it. So why do you want me to tell you these things? How will you develop if you won't be fantasizing and imagining to yourself that: I will go this way, I will do it that way. Only through that do we develop our soul, out of searching. We need to love and value these states of searching. Of course, the easiest way is to say where is the end of correction? Gmar Tikun, and how will it fall on me and everything will be ok. But no. We develop in addition to whatever the Creator prepared for us specifically through searching in that we ourselves want just like little children that they themselves wants to do something and you come and do it for the child and he isn’t happy with it. This is how we develop, that's why I don't really like to answer these questions of yours. You need to search and you need to invest a little bit of effort and you will see, we grow specifically out of that by developing deficiencies, desires, searching and we don't know what to do and the Adam is formed.
S. So that's exactly the problem that I am adding a lot and I can imagine a lot?
R. But you're limited by the laws of nature, you cannot just fantasize things correctly? You are limited, you are bound by the laws of nature so according to as much as you understand and as much as you're capable of and then you will see that then more understanding will open up for you in regarding what's possible and what is not. It's just like science, all in all we are engaged in a science, but in our science it is even more special. Since each time we need to discover new relations between the parts of reality.
22. S. (47:08) How can you disconnect and detach from what's necessary if it's always within you? It just follows the desire for connection. How can you detach from what's necessary if it's always with you because it swallows up the deficiency for unity?
R. No, it says that necessities are not praised or condemned it has to be what you really need. Because I am a human being and I have to work, I have to study, I have to get married, I have to have children I have to take care of myself and my family and the group, my 10 and the rest of the world to invest in them to some extent, I need to do many things. I can't just leave everything and go into some clothes lock place and live my life there that's it. There are some that think that that's the best way to go but it is not. We have to be concerned with the correction of the world and the correction of the world comes through all these systems that we see in life and therefore it says do not distance yourself from the public.
S. What to do with these walls up if this deficiency, if it eliminates it?
R. This is your work, you have to consider all these you have to allocate the correct things according to what is necessary and two are in this in parallel.
23. S. (49:14) What is this excerpt connection you said we have to be in?
R. Every time raise the importance of the connection so from one degree to the next it has to further and further determine my life it is the center of life in through that I received the upper light and exit to the Creator and the spiritual world that is revealed it is all through our point of connection that begins to develop more and more and from that point of connection begins to develop the system and Sefirot that are called the soul. In these ten Sefirot I get a feeling of the Partzuf, the worlds and my different forms of connection to the Creator and this is how they're called. It's my connection to the Creator to which I can add the measure to which I can add to myself, those desires that seem foreign to me, willingly through intellectual effort I want to drag them to the Creator. Accordingly I climb the spiritual ladder until I reach the general corrections that according to the force and givens that I was given I connect the whole of reality to the Creator.
24. S. (51:00) Regarding necessity we see in the past that the Kabbalists that their work was study of Kabbalah and also the 10 of Rabbi Shimon, they locked themselves up in the cave. It's very difficult like the friend asked before to engage in the study when you also have to go to work how does it work together, how does it coincide?
R. First of all don't take an example from Rabbi Shimon and his friends because they lived in a special time where they ran away from the Romans, the Greeks, they are different back then it was we're talking about the 2nd century and it was a very complicated situation. Fled all of their enemies and haters, where most of them the haters were Jews because it was a period in which Christianity started to form and different other movements, different alien movements that grew from Kabbalah into different directions and we can discuss all of these things we will learn about it sometime for sure but right now it is not important to us. What is important to us it's our individual development as groups, as tens and therefore don't take an example from them and don't even read about those states that they went through because it is unsuitable for us. This is simply my recommendation.
S. You always tell us that we're living in special times, it is the last generation, we need to focus on the study in our connection.
R. Upon what, at the expense of what, at expense of dissemination, work in the field, family.
S. But if I have to go to work in the end it doesn't allow me to be with my 10.
R. You will have to work and learn and study and even if you get some great big inheritance and you find a rich aunt or something, still you'll have to work and we had such cases with Rabash. So I asked him what should this person do, that he suddenly got a few million inheritance and he said great, that's his own concern or business he has to divide it, he is not on such a degree and still he has to work because everyone asked to work. He has to get paid and he has to try and live his life just like he did before but still nothing should actually change, a person should actually have to do physical work to work in the physical world and this is something that's what Rabash demanded of everyone. Even though I was with him for most of the day I had to work 4 hours to make a living and still it was enough and the rest of the time it was also considered work that I served him. Therefore, don't think that if you will do more than what we are talking about in the meaning lesson, suppose 4 hours some other types of connections between you and another 2 hours a day suppose. if you will do more than these 6 hours a day that you will be more successful in our business, you will not, it will just go to the Klipot.
S.
What
about
working
in
dissemination
that
is
also
considered
work?
R.
Work
means
that
you
work
and
you
are
paid
and
that's
what
you
live
off
of.
If
you
are
really
just
successful
in
dissemination
and
our
organization
sees
that
you
can
be
extremely
beneficial
to
the
dissemination
of
the
wisdom
of
Kabbalah
then
the
organization
can
pay
you
for
it
and
this
is
going
to
be
your
work.
We
have
a
few
such
people,
not
many
but
they
work
on
the
internet,
on
the
radio,
they
arrange
our
materials
and
sites
and
everything
according
to
their
expert.
Not
that
a
person
decides
this
is
what
I
want
to
do
and
he
leaves
everything
else,
it
is
forbidden
for
you
to
leave
your
day
job
like
Rabash
says
he
doesn't
need
the
money
he
doesn't
need
to
work
for
money
great
he
can
work
without
money
but
he
has
to
continue
working.
Yes,
we
continue
working
and
he
doesn't
necessarily
have
to
be
paid
for
it,
the
world
has
to
continue
working,
in
this
way
where
we
have
to
continue
working.
Beginners
usually
think
I
we
can
throw
everything
away
the
engaged
in
the
books
and
everything
and
we
don't
need
anything
else
you
know
you
have
to
be
married
with
children
with
all
the
families
that
you
have
problems
and
take
care
of
everyone
take
care
of
the
10
take
care
of
the
world
and
then
your
development
will
be
correct.
Excerpt 4 (58:02) twice
25. R. (59:37) We have to work from the deficiency towards the goal, the desire to attain the goal, and more and more all the time and on the other hand, we need to be in such a desire where I don't care if I am going to get the school now to achieve it or not. Also I'm content that by being simply in the process and I enjoy it and in that I am adhered to the Creator as well, only not in a revealed way and it all depends on our preparation, my preparation of the vessels. If my vessels can be in revelation of the Creator and along with it being complete bestowal towards him to the revelation. Than I am if I am still not eligible of the revelation of the Creator and be inclination towards him then I am under concealment but still one way or another from above I am getting the most correct condition in order for me to be connected with the Creator according to my parameters, according to my corrections.
Reads Excerpt 4 again
26. R. (01:02:47) The main thing that the group can give a person is the feeling that the Creator is waiting for us, waiting until we will prepare our vessels and he will be able to fulfill them.
27. S. (01:03:10) Why despite the directions over our work in connection develop a need for separation
R. Probably, we did not yet reach a state where as a result of the connection we discover separate. This is how we walk right left, left right, left right and if we have reached connection yet then we don't feel sufficient connection, we feel separation.
28. S. (01:04:06) Regarding corporeal work we have your example that you left everything at Bnei Brak, you gave up the business, you left and you also told us about Rabash that would have got a promotion and he gave up on this so if a person has the qualification to succeed and something is it better for him to give up and or should we?
R. Spirituality is in addition to the physical life and in addition to the physical life even though it's more important than this entire life but it has to be addition. It is forbidden for us to make big changes in our physical life hoping that it will help our spirituality. I see that there are many of those that get divorced. Why? How does that help you? Try to live with what you have and also continue in your spiritual work and your spiritual work is especially inside of you inside of your desires. Of course you possibly may have many unpleasant states but it doesn't mean that you really have to cut the ties that you have in the family now? I went through all these things. I know how annoying it is but I am telling you what the spiritual laws are, to try and keep the family, work, with all the conditions that you have in this world and from them to somehow advance, go towards building a spiritual vessel.
S. What is the correct relation to it, if I have a necessity but now I get a proposal that is much more than this necessary and can advance my career for sure it will come at the expense of the spiritual way?
R. Then you should do the math. Rabash also worked in the IRS and they wanted to make him a big manager there and he said I cannot I have health issues, I want to stay like an ordinary person, they told him look you get paid three times what you are now and he said look what can I do my health doesn't allow me to do it. This is what he told them even though that he had no health issues. So let's be a bit more, the Creator will send us different disturbances in one form or another and we need to remain physically wise to be normal and advance in the group
29. S. (01:07:47) You talked about divorce now as an example. Maybe that is his desire, the Creator’s desire to create?
R. Look I'm not as smart as you are I'm talking according to the laws of nature we have to keep what we have into add only in spirituality, first and foremost and don't tell me what you feel out of your ego that it all comes the from the Creator. From the Creator comes also the Sitra Achra and the forces which oppose spirituality so between the two forces we find the right path.
S. You say that we need to allow the doctor to heal so if they there are problems in the family we need to go get some treatment right?
R. Yes, they should get counseling or something but if you're talking specifically about divorce that is the last divorce that's the last thing. I have been married for more than 50 years and I went through many different states but this was never an option. This was never something that I couldn't do. There is no divorce knows no such thing.
S. How in the work between who is not for me, who is for me and then the Lord will finish for me. How do we each take part in this work one hundred percent if wholeheartedly. How can I do it as if I'm not for myself and who is for me and how to turn to the Creator and expect salvation as though all of my deeds and actions I'm not going to do anything?
R. This is exactly our work that we need to be adhered to the Creator and everything we do and that's how it is. What's so hard, give me an example?
S. A person wants to reach a deficiency to bestow and how can you now work connection in the tens as though it only depends on him?
R. Of course, he can get the deficiency to bestow only from his connection in the 10 from entering the 10 even more than before there he will find the deficiency to connect.
S. We're here, does he come by in the fact that the Creator needs to finish it for him?
R. When he wants to realize it of course he discovers that he doesn't have those forces to do it. Besides the deficiency that he has found now everything else is not in his hands the measure to which he will get the forces to implement it
31. S. (01:11:23) When we have a desire for something physical, in a physical life should we do anything with this desire which is not dependent on the Creator or is it something unrelated?
R. All of our desires and thoughts, everything that we have is under the complete control of the Creator truly so. Our entire work is to further and further advance ourselves both on the corporeal and on the spiritual level in our adhesion to the Creator, this is what we need to try and to be adhered to him heart and soul, think about this rule, that we are inside the Creator and that we have to discover that we are adhered to him and that's it.
32. S. (01:12:39) You said that the feelings that a person should get from the group is that the Creator is waiting for us. How do we build this feeling?
R. Talk about it amongst yourselves, talk about it and you will see. I see, let's move on to the next part of the lesson. It's enough for today that people have filled themselves up on this topic.