Many families do not live in harmony and serenity because we have not been taught to communicate with each other correctly. The difficulties in the system of relationships stem from our being egoists. The ego develops all the time, differences between us grow and multiply, and we don’t know how to communicate above it. We need to learn what human nature is and how to build a good mutual relationship despite the ego. It is not worthwhile to talk about what I do not love about my partner because I must achieve a situation where I love everything about him or her. Each partner must learn to see only good things in each other and to fully accept one another. We need to learn how to communicate above our differences and feel what the other thinks and desires, without words.