It is important for every person to know his identity, what sets him apart from others, and the power of the environment in shaping his personality. Humans are motivated by a desire to enjoy that has no rationality and constantly grows. In order to make the right decision at any given time, we must check whether or not we have the right connection to the environment. We live in an ecological sphere in which we feed each other. This is how ecological balance is maintained. The still, vegetative, and animate levels of life all have natural, instinctive, life-wise programs to maintain balance, but humans do not. We need connecting circles to build engagement with others in heart and mind and tens’ workshops through which we can absorb wisdom.