According to studies a woman can seem “unloving” from the viewpoint of the husband due to four reasons. The first reason is lack of freedom--a woman restricting in different ways what the husband can do. This is a true and just complaint, and a man needs freedom. We cannot deviate from nature, how nature created us, men and women are created very differently. Modern women are brought up in a way that they feel they can demand anything from a man, while men, driven by their nature cannot accept this. Instead they run away like little boys. If we look at any civilization throughout history, women create the home and the family, while men are responsible for bringing food and taking care of necessities. Women traditionally did not restrict men’s freedom. Today everything is different as we totally misunderstand and misconstruct equality. As a result, women leave home and start behaving like men, but it solves nothing. Instead, it breaks up the family and causes an immense crisis to the institute of marriage. The second cited reason is being overbearing--when a woman constantly demands the man to be nearby and available. It is similar to boys being restricted to stay at home instead of going out to play with their friends. Men remain like boys regardless of their age, and thus a wise woman needs to know how to behave with them, to give a man a certain amount of freedom. The third mistake is lack of appreciation--when a man never feels praised or appreciated and the woman looks constantly unhappy and unsatisfied. A man cannot tolerate being constantly criticized, undervalued as dictated by nature. A woman should never criticize what her husband does. Instead, she should be proud of her husband. This is dictated by the laws of nature and we cannot leave the natural boundaries. The fourth mistake is over-dramatizing--turning even the smallest incidents into dramas as if life depended on them. When a woman criticizes her husband and compares him to other men, the man does not feel that she is his wife any longer. That can lead to the husband leaving the home. In conclusion, we have to understand that we cannot change the nature with which we were born, either being a man or a woman. We have to build our education, societal laws and rules accordingly in order to validate nature. Men also have to learn what it means to be a man, that they should be courteous, loving and respectful. At the moment, men are seriously lacking in this regard. We can then become accustomed to respecting each other and speaking more kindly to one another in a heartfelt way. Habituating ourselves to say kind words to each other is the foundation of positive relations. We have to take humanity’s future seriously by working within the framework of natural laws, as within that framework resides our happiness.