Morning Lesson June 9, 2021, Transcription
Never Stop Demanding, #8
1. Rav’s Introduction: Never stop demanding, all of our work is divided into the work of preparation and begins from this as we enter some type of study. We are getting closer and closer to this matter of preparation and after we go through different states, we don't know exactly how we go through them, we also don't understand what we are going through. We go through it because the Creator is managing this whole process, in general there is None Else Besides Him, he orchestrates our entire path. We, according to the advice of Kabbalists, need to participate in that as much as possible, to belong to this participation, to participate in this development and this is basically our work. So demanding progress as correctly as possible, according to how we understand progress. To demand connection between us, connection with the Creator building the vessel, so we are closer to each other, so we can really bring ourselves to the Creator as one vessel. Being connected to a certain network that becomes more and more dense, more tightly connected. This is how we need to see ourselves. There are a lot of discernments in that, as we study and discuss this and try to bring ourselves closer as much as possible, one shall help his friend, each one for everyone. There are a lot of discernments in that but we need all of that in order to bring ourselves once again to connection between us, as it was in the system of Adam HaRishon but now when we come back to the connection between us, we begin to connect with the additional ego of each and every one and that's why the work is a lot more difficult. We resist, we have mutual rejection and hatred to the point that each one feels the others are disturbing him, are in his way and he hates them and they hate him. We have to understand that all of this is given to us from above so that we can include all of these mutual rejections between us into the connection between us. By that we bring together this collision, this clash, this resistance between us, in a way that specifically on top of the resistance and collision, we don't erase it we don't eliminate it we just go on top of it and connect above it. This is how we understand better and better where we are. The system of Adam HaRishon becomes clearer and clearer to us. This is called 620 times more. It is a symbol. It is not exactly 620 times more in terms of how we would count it mathematically. It is billions and billions of times more than what we felt in the system of Adam HaRishon that existed before the shattering. So that is how we establish ourselves but all of that is by demanding without any stop, to go back to that system of connection with all of the disturbances that we have felt, we never asked to neutralize the disturbances. But with all the disturbances we want to be connected together and this is why it is called Love covers all Crimes. That we need all of these crimes otherwise we won't have the right powerful connection between us and in the right way, where we need mutual assistance and an intensity of connection that the Creator can provide otherwise, we don't need it, we don't need that connection, we don't need to be in any kind of contact otherwise. This is how we actually advance and the main thing for us is to push ourselves forward, facing forward towards connection, with all the crimes with all the problems, between us so that there is connection between us and connection between us can be only to the extent that we join to each other. On the condition that the Creator fills these gaps between us which become bigger greater, more conflicting, more resistance, at least indifference and disregard towards each other, and we understand that this is how it needs to happen that specifically on top of that we want this power of connection to appear until it appears and all the strength so that he can connect us. So never stop demanding that the Creator will connect between us. This needs to be, as I have said more than once, like a little child who is nagging his parents that he wants this and this and so on and he can't let go, always wanting something, can't be stopped. That is how we need to be towards the Creator. The true desire that we need to present to the Creator is, it needs to be always at work, non-stop. Then it will help us that the Creator will answer us in each and every step, in each and every degree, what for, of course it's not the Creator who needs this. We need to have a strong constant powerful lack, that becomes more and more powerful both in quantity and quality. Thus, we come to a point where we demand until the cup is full in each and every state. Then we merit the more advanced state. What we need right now is to know how to organize ourselves so that our demand is constant and constantly increasing in both quality and quantity, we will fill all the moments of the day with our demand. Each and every one. And one shall help his friend and also set a good example for each other in this. And thus, we advance.
2. S (11:05) In this request, what is the quality and what is the quantity?
R. In the dressing of the Creator I want to show him that I really want to be connected with my friends as I have no chance to advance to spirituality but only by overcoming the connection between us. I can't do it unless the Creator arranges this state of increasing connection between us to the point that the Creator can actually appear between us. and yet we prefer the connection between us more than connection with the Creator. To me the powers of connection, the powers of mutual bestow between us, become more than the connection between me and the Creator, why? Because connection with the Creator without connection between us will be egoistic, that's how it will be. We have this rule, from Love of the Created beings to Love of the Creator. If the love of the created beings and the love of friends is not the condition in which I receive love of the Creator then the love for the Creator is also egoistic. Meaning if we need to determine in order to bestow, we can determine that only in the connection between us so that's the only thing we need to ask for. I have no problem to ask for the revelation of the Creator being closer to the Creator, sure, I'm willing to do that because the Creator gives me a sense of this life, this world, the next world, the sense of Eternity. Whatever it is I'm willing to be closer to him to connect with him and feel connection with him, but with the friends, that's a problem. It can happen only if I rise above my ego. The demand to the Creator for it to be constant has to happen through the vessel of Love others or otherwise it won't be bestowal, it won't be faith above reason. It won't be the level of Bina which is above the level of the Malchut. Let's stabilize ourselves and calibrate ourselves correctly because that's the only way to realize what the Creator wants from us.
3. S. (14:49) How can we let go of the place of all of the thoughts and these desires so we can truly open up ourselves to a prayer because we're always being swayed off?
R. We need to think about this formula, from the love of the created beings to the love of the Creator, that there cannot be a relation with the Creator if not from connections between us, only when we connect so. When we connect from 10 to 1 only from that vessel we can turn to the Creator. Otherwise, we don't feel we don't perceive him. It is the law of the system that 10 becomes one and then we rise to another degree where again 10 becomes one and that's how it works, it's actually quite simple but if we don't realize that we don't move on to spirituality.
4. S. (16:05) If it's billions of times stronger, then why are Kabbalists who chose 620 times more to express this intensity? What's unique about this number?
R. No, 620, we will learn that there is actually a specific volume that we put together and compiled from The Book of Zohar where it talks about all these definitions. It comes from the structure of the Partzuf …. 248 and 365 and why it is like that, it is the power of connection between the vessels of bestowal Keter, Hochma, Bina the vessels of reception Zeir Anpin and Malchut but it doesn't matter because these numbers shouldn't be confusing us, we don't need to think about the numbers now, no. We just call it 620 times more, we sometimes mention 248 + 365, there's other numbers as well that we use to express different parts of the vessels and relationships between them, but we will get to that and then we will learn that it is not a principle matter, it doesn't matter.
5. S. (18:07) If I want to love my friends, what do I need to wish for them, to ask for them?
R. You need to do all the actions in order to bring them closer to the Creator.
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6. R. That we need to cause this complete Zivug coupling, we cannot do it at once.
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R. Right this is how we have to try to do it. All of our actions are all aimed at revelation of the Creator between us and revelation of the Creator meaning the force of love and bestowal that will dwell between us and then through that force we will see all of the upper reality eternal and whole.
Excerpt 9 (20:49-22:54) twice
7. R. We see that he says it here as well, that if I manage to awaken the heart of the friends through them, I also reach the Creator and I can awaken him to help us and me also. But not otherwise, if we just yell to the Creator directly and turn to him directly it does not help us. It does something but it only helps us in a long way. That in a way that we awaken him and he awakens us, to show us that we are not successful until we realize that we actually have to approach the group and through the connection with the friends we can only awaken him and only then, he will ultimately answer and that's how it will happen. We have no way to approach the Creator here if not through the 10. What he writes here at the end of excerpt 9 that you have to awaken the friends until the flame rises by itself, and by that you will be rewarded with awaking the love of the Creator upon us, so you can’t awaken the Creator more than you will awaken the friends and only through the friends can you awaken him. And of course, we have a lot of difficulties here, a lot of disturbances and it is specifically for us to see that we have to overcome them, neutralize, clarify them. Specifically, from the resistance, from this collision we have to do a lot of work. So that thanks to the collision and resistance and difficulty we will achieve the power of demand and intensity of connection between us and then we can turn to the Creator in the right way.
8. S. (25:17) To always stand guard, where does the person take forces and energy to do this always, and make a study basis?
R. If I am connected to the 10 and I take examples from the 10, in the 10 lies the Creator. Surely in a hidden way but it doesn't matter, I get strength from there and then I have the strength to carry out all of the spiritual discernments that only on the condition that I work towards the 10. If I don't have the power to work towards the 10 then I'm not in the right direction, I can only have to aim myself that way. It takes us years until we despair from the work we do from our states and then we finally agree to work through the 10.
S. I can take forces only from the 10?
R. No, you don't take strength from the 10 you're taking strength from the Creator who is hidden in the 10. But if you demand the power to connect then you discover it exists in the 10 and you can use it and advance.
S. Where do I take the energy for this constant demand, it's a problem to be constantly demanding, it takes a lot of forces?
R. The demand, the forces to demand to turn to the Creator you receive that from the 10 as well, you have nothing to complain about. If you know that all of the deficiencies and advantages negative forces positive forces you get all of that from the Creator through the 10. This is called Israel the light and the Creator are one. You don't have any other line here to work with, it is just me the 10 and the Creator. There is no more to turn to, no one else to turn to, just think that in this direction and this point you have everything. Not just you, every person in the world, each and every one, there is no other way to achieve your correction if not in this way. To be aimed at the Creator, this is called, Israel straight to the Creator and through the 10 connecting yourself to the group and then with the group in connection with the group where the 10 becomes one, you attain the Creator as one, understood, good.
9. S. (29:01) Over the course of the activities when we are not in connection with the 10, what tool can I use to strengthen the thought and worry about the friends and constant connection?
R. You need to depict it to yourself so that it is like, in front of you, in the air that you are in the 10 connected to them and from that you connect to the Creator and you have no other way to determine your state. Only you, the group the Creator and so you have to see yourself in the spiritual state and then in the corporeal state, as what you see through your five senses.
10. S. (30:26) How can I save this fire among friends?
R. One shall help his friend, we have to try to prepare ourselves in such a way that everyone will be a good example for the others externally as well. and internally, we constantly think about how we strengthen our 10. Because only in the unity of the 10 we will feel the Creator within. The Creator is simply the result of our connection, without the connection between us no Creator, if there is a connection between us, we will feel to some extent the Creator and that intensity will be the Creator. That's why it says, You Made Me. You build me because the Creator is a result of our effort if we don't make the right effort, there is no Creator. Just understand these rules, it is not what we are used to in this world, we make the spiritual world from the effort that we make between us.
11. S. (32:07) The ninth passage the letter Rabash writes, I Must awaken the Hearts of the Friends, until the Flame rises by Itself. What are the flames in the hearts of the friends?
R. Man’s heart means man's desire. I need to awaken the friend’s desires so they are aimed at connection and unity that is, one man in one Heart to the extent that we can connect our hearts to one, to that extent we can feel the force of one in it, which is the Creator.
S. So how is it, how can I understand that this one, mutual desire I need to awaken so that it will stabilize and form in all the friends, truly?
R. I cannot see the friend's desire. I can only depict it to myself, it is your desire. You want that desire to be in them towards adhesion connection, to bring all of them to one. If you want this to happen, you see it, you are drawn to it and then when they are truly connected that way, with the Creator's help that he does the work, then you are the first receiver and you feel the results first because you caused it.
12. S. (34:32) How with the aid of the night, the state of discontentment and connectedness, can we connect with the friends. Where do we take strength to move in this state?
R. I'll tell you from my experience. For that I need the writings of the Kabbalists. I start reading and I barely understand what is written. I'm not like Baal Shem Tov who even forgot the letters but still, that's how we can awaken and sometimes we have to wake up, there is no other choice. So, we will do it like that and it is not simple, but it is very useful for the correction of the Soul. Don't be sorry for that because all of these powers that are resisting connection between us, all of these forces will be for the sake of connection and they will raise the soul, each and every one's soul to its place and one who is greater than his friend, his inclination is greater than himself and through connecting, correcting the inclination one rises to a higher degree. So don't ask to eliminate the disturbances, on the contrary, we overcome them and this brings us all the benefit in our spiritual ascent.
13. S. (36:44) This common desire how to use it in every state and in everyone?
R. This is only from experience I can’t explain more than that.
14. S. (37:07) We learn that the light of Faith brings connection to a certain degree and then we acquire spiritual knowledge. Here it is written in the passage 9 like the opposite that the night brings knowledge why?
R. Now the night brings the Kli the deficiency, if we correct the deficiency correctly, we bring it light of Hassadim then after that in the light of Hassadim we can bring the light of Hochma. The night expresses knowledge, it's not directly, it is in its deficiency where the deficiency is exactly corresponding to the light and then by certain actions we can reveal the light, so without the night we cannot reveal the light.
15. S. (38:18) If 10 more to the Creator then to the friends the one we with flip it?
R. It's not good, it means that still your heart is towards Revelation and not service.
S. So how do I change that, flip that naturally I've tried some force?
R. Of course you want the Creator you want to even manage the Creator and according to your ego you want to manage the world and you don't agree with this whole process you're going through of course there's no doubt. but there's no choice. You have to again and again bring yourself to the states where I have to reach a state where I am taking care of the group. In every degree in every state, you're going to have to correct it again and again because every time you it will be new to you. Your day will be as new because the desire is renewed and so that is what happens every time we come to connection and the right conclusion this is called the penny joins another penny until there is a great sum total.
16. S. (39:54) Making some classes of the work that I can do during the day to be in connection with the Creator to act like the Creator as much as I can. Then somebody comes and swipes me on the road and I start to see just how far I am and I've been even worse than before. Why are there no criteria that allows me to discern if I actually improved compared to yesterday?
R. Until we come to the revelation of the creator, each and every day we see ourselves in a worse state. I become weaker, more broken each and every day. I remember Rabash would say well now you are a rag like I am. I look at him and I would say what is he saying? But that's how it is because every day we advance, we feel ourselves more broken and weaker and under worthy of anything. That is a sign of progress, that in your will to receive you discover each and every day that you don't have the ability to do anything and spirituality. That you can't make any action of bestowal and a greater will to receive appears and you can't do anything at all if you could do something yesterday that you would have done yesterday you can't do today. You have to overcome that with force. you tried to overcome a certain moment and immediately we fall. Yes, all kinds of thoughts, desires, that's the way.
Excerpt 10 (42:38 - 43:57)
17. R. Well, that is how he says it in this poetic way Rabbi, I'm a Commando.
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18. R. Right so this is what can save us and nothing else besides this. and that's it.
19. S. (46:17) Why does it say here 70 languages Baal HaSulam had students who spoke 70 languages?
R. 70 language is not Hebrew English French 70 language Meats for every pill that you can make towards the Creator and besides from all the connections in the Partzuf of the Soul does ZAT of the Partzuf does that of the Partzuf is 7 x 10 x 10, 70 manners of different connections in order to form in us a whole connection. So that is called 70 types of connections. That's where the number 70 comes from. So that's how he calls it such that in all opportunities he had to turn to me I did this.
S. It's mentioned here that if I understand but I don't feel what does a friend do with this feeling and working with the 10?
R. We need to make an effort to bring our states to sensation and not understanding sensation and then out of sensation we can already be in motion towards the connection between us in our mind we cannot connect and in general the mind has been given to us only in order to connect our emotions because the foundation of creation is desire. The Creator created desires and we need to correct them to one place to one desire and to connect desires into one desire we can do only under one condition that they are all directed towards the Creator and then in him our hearts will be in joy and within the Creator we can connect all our desires.
20. S. (48:48) It seems from the text that the reason for the negligence in my request excerpt with the friends is inevitable. Is it unavoidable, it's just how do we shorten this?
R. In the group and in dissemination only in this way. There are those who can invest more in the study and there are those who can invest more in dissemination, then a person needs to try himself in one or the other, where does he tend to what is his tendency, towards where is his art 10 to inclined to.
S. What exactly is negligence?
R. Negligence is, I don't invest all of my forces, if we know all the connection of the world is in the connection of all the souls then as much as I can arrange, connect, form all the souls as one soul so in what am I causing it.
21. S. (50:33) A person thinks he needs salvation either today or tomorrow. How does he force himself to need salvation today?
R. A person needs to scrutinize what exactly he wants, and then from within this desire. What does he want? What does he want to attain that he does not have and in this he will see salvation? What do I lack in order to be whole, successful, happy, what am I lacking? Let's not confuse myself. What do I like today? Is it money? Maybe food? Or sex? or? Or honor, knowledge? What do I need? and accordingly I can determine where I am. If it is honor food, family, honor. It's all in the framework of this world, if I'm in connection with friends then in connection we can reveal our root, the upper force, then I am already in a spiritual degree so as much as I make an effort to advance from a corporeal degree to a spiritual degree.
22. S. (52:11) Specifically in this we feel the need to ask today and not tomorrow but there's times where there is a friend between us that we pray for him again and again and it's not that he's not there he's working but I feel like I don't know what to do in my work anymore of course, we haven't reached the sufficient quality so what is the recommendation when you don't know how else to turn in order to cause this connection?
R. You need to think that what you see is what you see. all who notifies the others he does out of his own flaw and you need to bring yourself to a state where you see the entire group in a whole manner that you invest so many forces in desires that they will all be whole and at peace and this is how you see them. I think that each one of us. Let's say like how a mother takes care of her baby right, she had nothing more important than her baby and she sees no flaw in him and you say well look at everything that's happening to him look how ugly he is look at those ears that knows, but for her, nothing is more perfect than that. nothing more perfect than that baby. So that's how you need to see the group. Try to compare this to what you see now and see just how opposite it is.
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23. S. (57:10) I feel like I am in the lesson and I'm hearing everything but after the lesson when we do the summary and I hear the lesson during the day, I feel like I was not even then the lesson and miss so many things?
R. What is your objection?
S. The claim is that you want to be in the lesson. Is there any progress here? What is going on?
R. You are being shown just how much you are changing. Just how much you were in the lesson in one state and you are also we're under the influence of the friends and the general atmosphere and of mind and then you exit it you fall and you disconnect from us. That is a problem that is the problem meeting and then you feel everything in your vessels and it in your vessels. You have nothing to say, nothing to see, nothing to feel. It seems to you then that it's all empty as if it never were. Try not to disconnect from us and then you will feel over the course of the entire day just how much you have more discernment and revelations and our material.
S. I also thought because we study together then maybe the 10 can?
R. In the 10 all these things exist even though they may not remember but there is the matter of the spiritual 10, that they are yes there you are and everything is there and everything is kept there, so try to always be tied to one another and see just how much you can continue to liven up the topic of the lesson together.
24 S. (59:10) Sometimes friends feel supported actually for the heaviness they feel, he seems more respected in friends since they say it is a big soul, heavy soul what do you do with such justification?
R. It is true a big person is revealed to him greater lacks greater deficiencies but the question is what does he do with this having this, he is receiving? Is he truly justifying this that he has been given this burden or not? or does he appear with respect to the friends as weak now? Is it good that the friends reveal that he has the heaviness of heart? I mean it is good that he reveals that big soul is receiving the heaviness of forces and accordingly he develops the forces of overcoming that he is connecting with the environment that is in his forces, and his prayer to the Creator and then by this is overcoming the disturbances the obstacles and he advances. That's how it is.
S. To succeed in awakening the friends, what do I want to happen to the friends that means that I have succeeded in awakening them?
R. That they don't forget about the rules of our correction in each and every state which is the only on the connection of Israel, the light, the Creator are one, that I turn to the society to the 10 and from the 10 to the Creator and then from the Creator I received through the 10, I receive the aid the assistance to me and then again and again and again MAN and MAD as we learn.
25. S. (01:01:21) He writes here that we always aim ourselves towards faith, which is called Malchut, what does that mean?
R. Now working in the form of bestowal is called faith, yes, faith is the quality of Bina but the Malchut which wants to resemble Bina that wants to awaken itself towards bestowal, it is also called faith.
S. What does it mean that we bestow like this in our work?
R. We want to be so out of their will to receive called Malchut, we want to resemble the intention to bestow, to the degree of Bina.
S. How do I resemble our desire to bestow?
R. By the intention to bestow our will to receive me and it remains as it is we can't do anything without it's been given to us by the Creator so as much as we can make ascribe the will to receive two the intention to bestow, that is called that we resemble ourselves to the degree of Bina. in that we become similar to the Creator. That's why we are called Adam, meaning similar to the Creator.
S. If we practically, in the 10, in our work, we want to, we have desires that are very different in each one how do we build this comment intention between us?
R. That we wish to bestow to want to know. If we reveal the mutual bestow one towards the other and we can't do it without the aid of the Creator and the Creator we can each one draw him to use the force of the Creator towards the friends, then we will build instead of this egoistic field of ours a field of bestowal, a spiritual field, a field that in which we will use the qualities of the Creator. That's called that the Creator is revealed between us among us that's how he is revealed. We don't need anything else besides this.
S. We come to this field with the Creator's help from above?
R. We reach a field of bestowal between us by this that we want to reveal the Creator between us. the force of mutual bestowal, that is it, we want it to be revealed, it is the force that is present in nature it is in nature. I'm sure you saw all kinds of movies about the universe about the space that we are in. There are all kinds of forces in it that we don't identify yet and surely there are all sorts of planets and stars, maybe even creatures that we can't even identify them. Our vessels, our tools, our telescopes, all these different things on our radars, they can't reveal them, not capable. But there is a force that fills the entire universe and it is said, I don't know, maybe, dark matter, all kinds of scientists have their theories, they say, but it is clear that we feel such that there are ways that we cannot identify them. Surely there are forces, such, that pass from one edge to the other of the universe if you can even say that the Universe has an edge or it but these forces appear in each place. They appear in each place. if it wasn't such a, then our entire universe would already crumble. The mutual forces between all the parts of the universe exist and operate beyond all of our corporeal limitations. and some of them are concealed, meaning that we can't yet reveal them only when we will be on the intention to bestow. That then we won't be limited on the matter, what is related to matter.
S. All the friends in the 10, I'm sure that they want it, they invest in it. but each time we kind of miss something whether it's in our zoom meetings or the prayers summary after the lesson and how do we build it together?
R. I'm very happy with our world group, it must be the time and it is good that this is how it is. We need a bit more effort in our intentions but not just force rather what do I want to connect my force to? What do I want to receive in return for this?
26. S. (01:08:30) When we reach the spiritual degree and the connection between the friends becomes the most important thing, will the lower desires disappear or they remain and we don't pay attention to them?
S. When the spiritual desire becomes the most important thing and now the corporeal desires disappear or they remain and become less important?
R. Yes, they become less important meaning what remains is important things for food, sex, family, knowledge, honor and they remain only from things that I must fulfill them and maintain them in order to maintain myself. Of course, it is just like we grow in this world from being children to being adults and we leave all the games and the things that are important more to kids and for us we have importance in things that are more for adults. Okay?
27. S. (01:10:32) I don't understand, how do we help each other? Say I am going through some inner state, how can the friends help me? They can't even see it, pay attention to it, how is the Arvut happening here?
R. Arvut is the quality of the spiritual vessel and if they don't help you cannot advance. Very simply, you exit your previous state but you remain on the same plane. You don't advance. If you receive from them one force of support mutual responsibility, their desire along with yours you connect to reach spirituality on a higher degree. Then you already rise to a different level of existence, your qualities change, your values change, otherwise no.
S. So what is it, this kind of general support?
R. If it's not by Arvut than general support but Arvut in a bit is present and gradually slowly more and more it is revealed and increased, it exists in any case.
S. How does it happen, let's say a friend goes through some inner state, where does mutual guarantee play a role here? How does he have it?
R. If you understand and feel it and want to help and think about it, this is already Arvut.
S. What if we don't know about that state?
R. If you don't know, that is not so good. You have no opportunity to express your mutual guarantee towards him.
28. S. (01:12:58) How to draw the force of the Creator? What to imagine, what to want, because it doesn't appear to me?
R. The force of the Creator is always in bestowal above all calculations. It is like a mother with respect to her child and he can be wild but it doesn't matter, she reveals her love towards him in an absolute manner. Yes, that's how it is, that's how we need to make an effort to relate to our friends.
29. S. (01:13:43) Let's say we take what you say before that we have to give service to the friends and I can see that I really exit myself and make sure the friends are focused and concentrated on connection. I see that I can do this but I don't feel the Creator's help with that, he gives me strength or that he's doing it. I feel like I care for the friends and the Creator is lost from the equation, is this fine?
R. No, this is not okay, you have to pull him by force, request and talk to the friends about this that the Creator is missing between you.
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30. S. (01:18:46) If the Creator doesn't help and he doesn't overcome, where does the Creator's help end?
R. It can come to us and all sorts of forms, it is possible a person is given to even more burdening of his heart and then he feels everything as closed up, that everything is dark and it could be that from this, along with it he feels that he must overcome, that he must add forces. That he burst out and out of the darkness to become the light, that it becomes clear that sometimes to scrutinize the states we need to go into even greater darkness so that it will be clear to us what we will need. Meaning that we don't solve the problem, but rather we can locate the source of the problem and there's also, is part of the solution. Just like we need to solve some problem, let's say in math. First, we need to understand what is being asked of us. What the question is, what the problem is. Then we can work on the solution and it is the same thing here. The aid from the Creator always comes and we always actually need to locate it what He is doing and then we will see just how much all of the time that He is helping us and, in this way, and that way in all of His desires and all of His actions are all revealing to us just how much He is in service, in love and care for us. How He is helping us on all sides to scrutinize our questions a bit more, pressing on us a bit more and giving us a bit more feeling from this way that we are capable and so on. Really from all sides the Creator's helping us. All the time.
31. S. (01:21:30) How is it possible to preserve the connection to this world when our priorities begin to change, let's say my son wants me to take him to soccer, my wife wants to go on vacation, my partner wants to make more money in business but I have other priorities now. Should I continue participating in these things but how do I do that when I no longer have any flavor in this world?
R. You are right, and you would have it because you start to see this world as the lowest and most childish that there is nothing to it, that you can only take from this world anything you need in order to exist, food, sex, money, family, money and honor in such a form that you are not so engaged deeply in it and explain to them that I don't participate in soccer and fashion and all of your shopping that you want to go and do. I make an effort to be at home and to bring home the salary, to care for the health of the family but not more than this. Only the necessary things and everything else. I don't care and I don't need to. If you will say this with all of your heart, let's hope that they will understand.
S. Yes, I'm thinking these people that are connected to my life have expectations for me and that I'm not keeping them and not realizing them.
R. You don't have to serve them, just bring them what they need, you don't have to be some magician or an actor for them or organize everything for them, they shouldn't demand this of you.
32. S. (01:24:43) Overcoming or the force of faith that we ask for that comes from outside the 10 to help the 10?
R. Both, you have to scrutinize it on the way, but it is a good question.
33. S. (01:25:19) Working for the benefit of the Creator means to bringing others to work for the Creator?
R. No, this that you are bringing others to work for the Creator in such a manner you are correcting your soul, your soul is spread over all of humanity, all of the souls. There is nothing else but your souls so correct it.
S. What does the benefit of the Creator mean?
R. That they will all participate in bestowal, Arvut.
S. It all comes down to the same Creator but I don't know what to do.
R. Only explain that this force is unrestricted, unlimited and in control of them over all of the creation.
S. So this is what I need to help them decide to advance them?
R. Yes, help them in such a manner that they are you, that there is no one else but you in the world.