New life comes from the power of desire. Each child brings forth a unique spiritual component and alters the destiny of the family. The connection between the feminine and masculine forces as well as the higher power grows every day during pregnancy. The feminine force must be ready to accept the masculine force and the masculine force must have the right influence on the feminine force in order to for conception and pregnancy to succeed. The wisdom of Kabbalah advises that partners who want to have children commit to a process of mutual spiritual development.