Shaming others damages good connections in the social network and introduces bad feedback in life. When we shame someone, we erase the person and destroy his connection to the system and the possibility that he could be corrected. He is not to blame for the harm he does to others since the environment has shaped him that way. What helps is to give an opposite, loving example and focus on correcting the network of connection around him. We need to become more sensitive to one another by building a new, social, educational system. All hurts can be healed and balance can be achieved through a loving society.