In a family, you have it all. There are good and happy moments, and along with them, there are also many fights: fights between siblings, quarrels between parents and their children, and between spouses. We asked Kabbalist Dr. Michael Laitman to share his view on this: “Quarrels are a necessary element if people want to change their current situation, or to even leave it in the status quo or as it was previously, one way or another. These are periods that we have to go through from time to time in order to strengthen our connection, examine it or even move away a bit. They help to advance us in our relationships, provided that it is all done out of love, as it says in the wisdom of Kabbalah “love will cover all crimes.” Connection also includes rejection, otherwise we do not feel the connection. We cannot just have a fight, which is not for the sake of love: We need to teach people to fight in order to increase love!”