Self-love is the fundamental material or software that controls everything and its operation has passed its prime. Human self-love has become insatiable and destructive. We are in despair because there is nothing left with which we can fulfill our desire to love ourselves. Since the mid-90’s, morbid forms of self-love have developed and we are out of balance. We must transcend our self-love in order to get out of this loop. To feel good, we must now learn how to surround ourselves with mutually loving relationships. Happiness can only be found through loving others.